Dos don39ts dating
Here, the advice IS coming from actual experts and in this case, six bona fide therapists! Ditch the long laundry list written by everyone else, but you! When getting to know someone in a new relationship, they want to know who you are today not how you were in a past relationship or lifetime.
DO talk about yourself as who you are today in the present and the values and goals you have for yourself in the future. DON'T monopolize the conversation or make yourself the highlight real, no one healthy or worthwhile being in a relationship with is interested in getting into a coupleship with a narcissist.
In the new millennium, finding someone to date isn’t nearly as tricky as mastering the art of dating.
Don’t pretend to be something or someone you’re not in an effort to impress a potential partner.DO keep in mind that dating isn't easy for anyone, no matter where you live.You can blame your location, the ratio of singles to couples, or even the weather. DON'T stop pursuing new hobbies and other life experiences just because you’ve found a partner.After a string of dating disasters and truly forgettable blind dates with friends of friends, I was ready to chuck in the towel, buy a cat and surrender to the fact that I am a forever singleton.But after several months of bullying – sorry, I mean peer pressure – I finally gave in to joining the online dating game.